The problem is my hurt and pain always expresses itself as anger. My heart could be breaking into two, but I’ll be ready to curse you and your mother out & punch a whole in the gotdamn wall.
know yourself and your needs
some people can do the do without emotions
and some can’t
neither perspective is right or wrong
just know there will always be problems when people from one group start rolling around with the other
I really want to have a good relationship with my child(ren) if I end up having them. Like I am your fabulous Nigerian mother and you are my fabulous African offspring but I will respect the fact that you are your own divine person but our souls shall connect because we are different but of the same